I used to wonder why brides-to-be are so bothered when their gal friends or jiemeis can't make it for their wedding. (要看姐妹or朋友有心没心的拉!)
But now that it's my turn, I'm getting as upset as the BTBs. They were told of the exact date some months back, which means they could have plan for their holidays or stuff, avoiding my wedding day. They didn't bother to tell me they can't make it and came with the bad news only after I asked them for mailing address. Well, people have a choice. I'm in no position to influence them. I'm not gonna get angry over such trivial matters. There are more happy moments awaiting ahead of me.
I have a friend who getting R.O.M in 11th June is one day before my wedding day. Quite angry with her at that time, because i already told her since last year (2007) Oct that I already fixed the date on 12th June 2008 told her to get ready to be my "jiemei" u know what she told me not sure leh if she can't attend she will give me "angpow" but the problem is i don't care about the "angpow". Being Friends from 1997-2008=11years. It is not the "money(angpow)" problem lor. As for my r.o.m she still can't attend my day. My r.o.m is on Feb 2008 and i told her in Dec 2007 you have to attend my r.o.m since you can't attend my actual day. She told me not sure yet still early then ok. She still need to count date, i thought she count her leave haha... No she count when was her mense came then she told me if my r.o.m dated was her mense. came then sorry she dont want to attend. OMG! What crap?
Any of my friends knowing that i getting married, they all feel happy for us, said that no problem will be attending no worries. They said friend getting married leh sure must attend right. Once a life-time to attend and be witness for the whole wedding. They really feel happy for me LoL.... As for her, she asked me are you sure your boyfriend is suitable to be your husband or not, she don't think he is a good husband. When i heard this really up-set by her words. : (
We are in the same age she behave just like an old lady went for God-Niang Niang to ask for the date of R.O.M and Wedding date, (well nothing wrong lah). Just i thought this type of things should be her mother-in-law or her mother doing it. Why can't she told God-Niang Niang to choose others date for R.O.M since she knew 12th June is my wedding date? If she will to made an effort to change, if really it's said in the whole of 2008 only 11th June is very GOOD date for R.O.M then I heard i will feel happy, course she made her effort to avoid.
On the Oct 2007, she already told me before or after 4 months can't attend others people wedding but she think better that in the whole of 2008 she will never attend her friends wedding if they happen married in 2008. She told me if she force herself to attend if her wedding turn up not good, she will blame her friend who force her to attend. For her, she said if i don't attend hers wedding also no problem because as long she was happy on that day will do.
Anyway she just care for herself. One day she told me that after her marriage she will have less time for friends because her husband & family is very important. No time for friends, if her husband happen that can't accompany her then she will think of her friends. I think no matter friends or family should be balance right. Not that you have a family doesn't mean you can't have friends.
She always like that her things is very important & very big problems. When ever she called us sure start saying her things 1st then after she finish she will said bye.... We always be the one who listen.
I have a primary school class-mate her name is Rachel we lost contract but we found each other in friendster and chat on MSN, when she knew i'm getting married she said must invite her, but i really "pei sei" to invite her because we don't ever meet up together since years. This is what she sms to me <I jus quit my job haha. then not sure i working office or retail by then. But i will take leave to attend ur wedding no matter wat.haha.> So touching!!!
And i have other best friend cum sis from Ipoh(Malaysia) her name is Xenie, she getting married on Dec 25th is a X'mas day. haha what a wonderful day. I thought she can't be attending feel sad, but she told me, she will be attending. (,") She will travel from Ipoh to Singapore almost 7-8 hours just to attend my wedding wow so touching, what a best friends. I sure will travel from Singapore to Ipoh to attend her wedding too. I can go there to celebrate X'mas with her in Ipoh. Knew her since 2002-2008=6 years
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Janis she is my best friend cum sister since from 1993-2008=15years because she born on 26th, i was born on 24th just 2 days difference. hee. She going to apply 2 days leave to attend my wedding.. So touching too. Ok. Half half because of me lah and her boyfriend is having birthday on 13th. So that's balance. haha.
As for Carene & Florence they are my best friends cum sister since from 1997-2008=11 years. They also need to apply leave or take off to attend. So touching too too. Janis, Carene, Florence these are my best friends will be my "Jiemei" on my big day. Thank you very much for being my "jiemei"..... Kiss u all.
Thank you for being my best friends for so many years......
Friends Forever.......
And I will never forget you guys.....
lOVES YOU ALL....
