Lovely Night 04 June 2008

Cheers.....
ShaoMei & WeiJie so lovely couple. Nice photo. Thanks to me. Haha

04 June 2008, I went to meet my old friends, Shao Mei & her's boyfriend Weijie at City hall, 7pm. Sorry to them, because i was late that night, i went to find one sweet lady before meeting them.

The sweet lady who's selling the lovely guest pens. She was a very nice & friendly lady not because she charged me only $36 usual price was $37.60. Haha. She very kind to reminded me what to do in my actual day. Most important is just to relax & enjoy the day, coz once in the life time. only. Time will never turn back again. Be Happy is most important. Must be a lovely pretty happy bride. Once in the life-time wearing the wedding Gown in the ballroom. Next time is to watch others brides Who's wearing in their pretty W.G. Haha..... :)

After collected my lovely pens, went to find Shao mei & Weijie for dinner in Raffles city, we went to eat the "Soup Spoon" well, what to said overall was so so only, for me i like the caesar salad and iced tea. We felt that only iced tea was the best overall. I had bought a "M+Y Steel" Necklace for Wei Jie Birthday Present in advance cos on 12 June 08 is My Wedding may not have the time to pass it to him. His birthday on the 13 June 08.
When i gave him the present, he can't guess what is the present that I gave to him.. haha... He open and surprise cos he seldom wear necklace. Then we told him to wear it but he can't hook the necklace himself so Shaomei asked Me to help him wear at the "Soup Spoon" and make him feel shy. He was so lucky be the first man i help him to wear beside my hubby lah.....

After our dinner we went to Swissotel lobby Lounge cafe bar for drink, the sofa sit was really comfortable and relax, while listened to the musical. Really like the environment very much.. I had ordered the "Mangotini", Shaomei ordered "Sling Temple" as for Weijie i forgot what was the name of the drink, but among of 3 glasses of drinks Shaomei hers was very nice except for Weijie his taste of drink just like a "Cough Syrup Medicine" EEeee... mine was too strong.

During the drink, we chats about the wedding like finding hotel, where is good & cheap to have a banquet & which car is the most save oil and nice.... He seem likes Honda_fit very much huh.
[P.s:" Weijie when you going to married my Best friend Shaomei???? She has been waiting for your purpose, her neck now very long liao...haha. Can get R.O.M first ma. Dont say no money, R.O.M only need $26 with 1 & the 1/2 days leaves to apply. As long give her a peace of mind. Hee."]

Well, time passed fast, it time to go home. We ended at 11:30pm. Wow, at the end I need to take cab home, it cost me $16.60, reach home almost 12am.

Really enjoys with them that night!!! Hope still can meet up with them again.


Note: Big thank you to Weijie for the big treats dinner & drinks. Thanks a lots bro. I'm waitng for the next treat...heehee
Happy 26th Birthday to WeiJie.

On the 12th June got appointment with my bridal shop-Bliss Bridal Creation at Marina Square. I tried 5 new gowns- 2 halter neck, 3 bustier, end-up i chose this above. Simple is nice and i like the back view very nice, is just that i need to slim down do sit-up a lot then can see my waist and take good care of my back.... haha....

At first my choice is a halter-neck wedding gown for my actual day and already took my photo shoot on 04/04/08, but after i heard my friends said the halter-neck not so nice and asked me "Why u chose that gown huh?" Very sad when hearding that loh. heehee

I went to look for my designer "Kingsly" and told him i want to change my wedding gown to bustier, "heng" he said he will try his best to help me and told me that there will be few more new designs coming on May.

Kingsly is a nice guy really thanks for his help.

I really hope this is the wonderful gown. Of course i can't change my mind. liao lah.

Too sad my photo album layout still have to wait in this few days have to make our trip again.

I was not feeling well these few days. Since Thursday till today.
Feel tired but later after work i need to go down with my hubby to our Bridal shop to see our photos album layout and plus trying my Wedding gown. Before our photo shoot i already chose the wedding gown was a halter neck, but due to my friends said that why i go and choose that design huh, not really suit me lol...??? After they said then i have no choice to change to bustier type.

Today have to choose the wedding gown due to my wedding just leave 30days no time liao. My hubby everythings also ok, so quite sian wor.

Still have no idea what I really wants. Haha....

Brides To Be

I used to wonder why brides-to-be are so bothered when their gal friends or jiemeis can't make it for their wedding. (要看姐妹or朋友有心没心的拉!)

But now that it's my turn, I'm getting as upset as the BTBs. They were told of the exact date some months back, which means they could have plan for their holidays or stuff, avoiding my wedding day. They didn't bother to tell me they can't make it and came with the bad news only after I asked them for mailing address. Well, people have a choice. I'm in no position to influence them. I'm not gonna get angry over such trivial matters. There are more happy moments awaiting ahead of me.

I have a friend who getting R.O.M in 11th June is one day before my wedding day. Quite angry with her at that time, because i already told her since last year (2007) Oct that I already fixed the date on 12th June 2008 told her to get ready to be my "jiemei" u know what she told me not sure leh if she can't attend she will give me "angpow" but the problem is i don't care about the "angpow". Being Friends from 1997-2008=11years. It is not the "money(angpow)" problem lor.

As for my r.o.m she still can't attend my day. My r.o.m is on Feb 2008 and i told her in Dec 2007 you have to attend my r.o.m since you can't attend my actual day. She told me not sure yet still early then ok. She still need to count date, i thought she count her leave haha... No she count when was her mense came then she told me if my r.o.m dated was her mense. came then sorry she dont want to attend. OMG! What crap?

Any of my friends knowing that i getting married, they all feel happy for us, said that no problem will be attending no worries. They said friend getting married leh sure must attend right. Once a life-time to attend and be witness for the whole wedding. They really feel happy for me LoL.... As for her, she asked me are you sure your boyfriend is suitable to be your husband or not, she don't think he is a good husband. When i heard this really up-set by her words. : (

We are in the same age she behave just like an old lady went for God-Niang Niang to ask for the date of R.O.M and Wedding date, (well nothing wrong lah). Just i thought this type of things should be her mother-in-law or her mother doing it. Why can't she told God-Niang Niang to choose others date for R.O.M since she knew 12th June is my wedding date? If she will to made an effort to change, if really it's said in the whole of 2008 only 11th June is very GOOD date for R.O.M then I heard i will feel happy, course she made her effort to avoid.

On the Oct 2007, she already told me before or after 4 months can't attend others people wedding but she think better that in the whole of 2008 she will never attend her friends wedding if they happen married in 2008. She told me if she force herself to attend if her wedding turn up not good, she will blame her friend who force her to attend. For her, she said if i don't attend hers wedding also no problem because as long she was happy on that day will do.

Anyway she just care for herself. One day she told me that after her marriage she will have less time for friends because her husband & family is very important. No time for friends, if her husband happen that can't accompany her then she will think of her friends. I think no matter friends or family should be balance right. Not that you have a family doesn't mean you can't have friends.
She always like that her things is very important & very big problems. When ever she called us sure start saying her things 1st then after she finish she will said bye.... We always be the one who listen.

I have a primary school class-mate her name is Rachel we lost contract but we found each other in friendster and chat on MSN, when she knew i'm getting married she said must invite her, but i really "pei sei" to invite her because we don't ever meet up together since years. This is what she sms to me <I jus quit my job haha. then not sure i working office or retail by then. But i will take leave to attend ur wedding no matter wat.haha.> So touching!!!

And i have other best friend cum sis from Ipoh(Malaysia) her name is Xenie, she getting married on Dec 25th is a X'mas day. haha what a wonderful day. I thought she can't be attending feel sad, but she told me, she will be attending. (,") She will travel from Ipoh to Singapore almost 7-8 hours just to attend my wedding wow so touching, what a best friends. I sure will travel from Singapore to Ipoh to attend her wedding too. I can go there to celebrate X'mas with her in Ipoh. Knew her since 2002-2008=6 years
>_<>_<

Janis she is my best friend cum sister since from 1993-2008=15years because she born on 26th, i was born on 24th just 2 days difference. hee. She going to apply 2 days leave to attend my wedding.. So touching too. Ok. Half half because of me lah and her boyfriend is having birthday on 13th. So that's balance. haha.

As for Carene & Florence they are my best friends cum sister since from 1997-2008=11 years. They also need to apply leave or take off to attend. So touching too too. Janis, Carene, Florence these are my best friends will be my "Jiemei" on my big day. Thank you very much for being my "jiemei"..... Kiss u all.

Thank you for being my best friends for so many years......
Friends Forever.......
And I will never forget you guys.....
lOVES YOU ALL....

The day i remember_22.02.08(Friday)

On 22.02.08 was my solemnisation was a day from Miss to Mrs. That mean i going to lost my freedom to marriage. Oh dear. I keep asking myself is he the one for me, only God knows. Well, marriage is just like a gamble or like grave haha really scare sia. We been together for almost 7 years, but years doesn't matter right. ya i know...

Went to Marina Square-McDonald for breakfast with my husband, because my bridal shop was there & need for make-up and dress up pretty. As for My solemnisation was at 1:50pm.

My best friends Carene & Janis came for my R.O.M very happy to see them. Thanks for coming.

Loves u all.

Whose attend my R.O.M? His parents, his eldest sister, brother-in-law,2 best friends, as for my side: My parents, youngest brother,2 best friends. Thanks for coming.....cheers

After that we went for our lunch at Marina Square already 3pm plus. I went back to my bridal shop to change my dress and take my things.

After our lunch we went back home and rest/sleep, because we both so tired for the whole day.

Wake up at 8pm we have our celebration at the night in EZ50 pub with a live band. All his friends & buddies came down to congrat us. Too bad as for my friends they can't turn-up that night. Well, quite enjoy with the songs & pole dancing. For me a feel a bit moodly but my hubby best friend steven(i think he drunk-haha) who came and chat with me, give me entertain if not i sure getting bored and sleepy.

Thank you steven.

Went home 3am.

30 April 2008

Today is my father Birthday. (so happy) Wait for knock-off work by 6pm. Wow, 6pm go home take transport "TM" bus only 7o cents from Changi Airfreight Centre reach Tanah Merah Mrt then took mrt to Sembawang. When i reached home about 7:40pm my mum say my brother say "Why is the mango cake so small?" Haha I say the cake is 15cm is for 5-6 persons, as i brought on-line so can't see how's the 15cm look like? Hee..

My mum cooks prawns, steam fish, veg, boil clams, soup yummy yummy.... Dinner start at 7:50pm, But my dad haven reach home yet & my mum wait for him, so my brother & I start to eat first, because we are hungry. End up I drink 3 small bowls of soup. Wow damn full sia. I love my mum cooks.

End of our dinner me start using my bro new lap-top for copy of my ROM photos to a cd-rom with 1 song for my photograhpy to do My wedding photo-montage/high-light. My dad just reach home wait for him to start and finish his dinner so that we can bring out the cake and sing Birthday song to him and cut cake for us to eat. (heehee so greedy)

His lap-top don't know why can't burn song only can copy. Waste our time to burn end up can't. Already 11.30pm, lucky, my hubby come and fetch me home because he went clubbing with his friends. I thought of going to zouk or dragonfly because of next day is Labour day but one of my girl friend her's godma's son death so must cancel our clubbing. Anyway "来日方长".

That's all for today.

Happy Birthday to Dad!!!!

30th Apr is my father Birthday.

Today order a Mango cake from Angie the Choice at Sun Plaza for my dad. And for tml my mum will cook for us dinner, quite happy for tml as for me very hard for me to eat at home. Very far from my home to my mother house (Pasir Ris to Sambawang then from Sambawang to Pasir Ris).
I never stay at home almost 8 years. wow omg because of freedom i leave tat home sweet home for years.
And now i get marry soon in June quite miss those day when i was in primary & secondary school.
Really wants to turn back the time return to those happy no worries & must chase those time tat i had lost, i hate myself for not studies hard in my young time. Just only know how to mixed/played with bad company when primary sch time.

Freedom really have to paid for it in order to get it.